PSA… To the Real Men out there.
I am not talking about “dem boyz” that are legal adults. I am talking about “MEN!” We loath divas!!! I do not care if you are the bikini Olympia champion or your father is a brain surgeon and you do not have to work hard for a living and expect to be spoiled. That diva BS is repulsive and takes away from any physical beauty you once had, literally…
Is it just me or has being a diva become a virtue? If you want to repel good strong men like myself and attract weak subservient boys or liars or players then, by all means, proceed to full Diva-Hood. MEN will always take the sweet thicker girl over the attention needing Diva any day of the week! Physically attractive women with no depth, are a dime a dozen now, thanks to Instagram. I have ended relationships, ended conversations, and even ended my attraction for many beautiful women as soon as the diva trait becomes apparent.
Have you noticed how many others are like you on instaslut and facewhore?
Time to step up your game and drop the Diva-Ego at the door & become real.
Just because you have the gift of being physically beautiful and have been told that by countless guys does not mean, Entitlement…
This does not mean life is easier for you. If anything it is harder because people, um, men just look straight through you. All they see is your outside and care nothing for your inside… A real man will talk to you, he will listen to what you have to say, not just wait for you to stop talking and wait for his turn to talk. That is what boys do, they don’t listen & they certainly do not tell the truth. They want it all, check that, they feel they deserve it all so lying for them is just a means of obtaining those entitlements.
Today’s generation of man-child is like in the movie Fight Club, and I will quote this…
“We are the middle children of history, man. No purpose or place. We have no Great War, or great depression. Our great war is a spiritual war. Our great depression is our lives. We’ve all been raised by television to believe that one day we’ll all be millionaires and movie gods and rock stars – but we won’t. And we’re learning slowly that fact. And we’re very, very pissed off. On a long enough timeline, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero. It’s only after we’ve lost everything that we’re free to do anything. You’re not your job. You’re not how much money you have in the bank. You’re not the car you drive. You’re not the contents of your wallet. You’re not your fucking khakis. You’re the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world. We’re a generation of men raised by women. I’m wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.”
Think about that, an-entire-generation-raised-by-women… What do you think that does to a man? When I see man-boys that lie/cheat/manipulate/steal to get through life… They are possessive… They whine… They are very insecure… How many of my really great girl friends have vanished from my life because their men get all nutz over us being friends… Yeah… Its crazy… I am not really ranting here. I am not upset about anything. I am just saying I notice things and NOOOooo… I do not need to accept them and just say, “oh well…”
Back to the topic… What I have said about men here also applies to women… Women wanted equal rights, they got them and in some cases only want the title, but don’t want to earn the actual right to be independent. I know a lot of women that say “I’m MS INDEPENDENT…” However, when you get to know them they are anything but…
I do know women that are beautiful and work their damn asses off for pennies on the dollar so they can have nice stuff, live on their own, take care of their kids or brothers/sisters for that matter. They are not relying on or looking for a man to take care of them. As I said in an earlier post… I am not going to post negative stuff without showing an attempt to be positive or say something uplifting about the subject matter.
If I didn’t think beautiful women were worth anything I would not hang out at hooters for a decade and befriend those girls. I have and they all shown me something about the struggle and yes, it is real… Those girls work their asses off and most guys treat them like crap. So I don’t blame them for having an attitude or not taking guy’s serious. How else would you react to that if that was you doing that?
Being a Diva makes a girl look really ugly and it hurts all beautiful women associated with her… Ladies be more… Your looks might get you in the door, but it’s your heart, respect, intelligence & personality that will allow you to stay there…
This by no means is a judgment NOR do I believe all beautiful women are like this. I just know how I have been treated in the past by the Diva and yeah… I should point things out… One see’s a red flag, call that person out on it, man or female. Do not pretend said thing did not happen. I am not just a meathead.. I can think and think clearly and if one gives me time to gather my thoughts… Watch Out… Flying-High-Now…
Yes, I have made/make mistakes but that is the part of growing. That process never stops.
“The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and science.” ~Albert Einstein…
“The only way of finding the limits of the possible is by going beyond them into the impossible.” ~Arthur C. Clarke…
One cannot attain happiness without sacrifice… People who can’t or won’t will always judge/hate people who can and will…